Sunday, March 29, 2015

Home...A Beautiful Place to Be

Today marks day ten of being home- together as a family.  What a blessing!  The past ten days have been wonderful... of course filled with some changes, a little adjusting here and there but mostly sweet moments watching our family become glued and fused together.  Kaleb has excelled in taking on his new big brother role.  His is great about seeing what she needs, telling her its ok and making sure she never cries :)  Elsie gets more and more comfortable each day.  Yesterday, was the first day she really ran around the house and played for big chunks of time without needing me to carry her, lift her, be holding her, etc.  all day long.  I love cuddling and holding her however, doing so for 2 1/2 weeks solid- your arms are tired and your feet are bored ;)  Together, the two already are siblings at heart.  We can see it in how they interact and tease each other.  Many fun times ahead for our little family!!
Thank you so much for everyone's love and prayers these past weeks and really months.  Our transition has went really well so far.  From the beginning, she attached (quite literally it felt) to me and not as strongly to Wes.  However, in these last few days- she is reaching for him, seeking him out, teasing him and definitely watching his every move.  It has been fun seeing her settle in with her dad.  I think she's already figured out that he's the softie around here... if you want to count on someone to smuggle you chocolate chips or Cheetos, Dad's the Man :)  Kaleb really hasn't had too much struggle with Elsie however, we've discovered that if he has to share Elsie, then we have some struggles.  Such as sharing Elsie with the grandparents, or extended family or church family.... he's been kind of turning into a little stinker when others are getting a little bit of Elsie's attention.  However, once she is all his... he goes straight back into rock-star big brother mode.
Elsie gained 1.4lbs in 4 days last week and I'm pretty sure she has gained another pound or two!  She is starting to gain some chunky legs, has learned to sign 'more', can go up stairs easily, down stairs kind-of, starting to practice her dance moves and already loves popcorn.  She's spunky kid and doesn't have a lot fear!  Yesterday, we went to the park and the only slide she went down was the big huge twisty one that starts about 25 feet in the air.  Of course, I was right behind her but she scrambled her way up the steps, then we sat down together and down the slide she went.  She sleeps through the night unless she wants a bottle.  She isn't convinced yet that bathes are such a good idea and is a little skeptical of peanut butter.  We'll work on those however :)
We blessed and incredibly thankful that God has blessed us with these two incredible kids.  To GOD be the glory for He has done GREAT things!  Our trip to Elsie's homeland was uneventful for the most part- nothing too crazy, which is always good :)  The flight home was long, painful and we'll try to forget most the 12 hours spent holding a fussy, overly tired, 20lb. 19 month old.  Let's just say the guy across the aisle kept ordering Jack Daniels.
China in a nutshell can be described as fog filled and crammed people everywhere.  There were indeed some beautiful parts and of course literally centuries of history everywhere.  I am so grateful however, for the clean air we breathe here, the wide open spaces and the beautiful sunsets that are so astounding in good old western South Dakota!
With that, I'll leave you with a few precious snapshots our dear friend (and INCREDIBLE) photographer captured from our arrival at the airport.  It was incredible and precious to introduce Elsie to her proud big brother!
The big introduction we've been praying for :) 
 Our attempt at our first family photo together... 
Real life people, this is how we roll :) 
Our little family- assembled by God!  
P.S. Check out hH Photography... http://www.hhphotodesign.com/

Tuesday, March 24, 2015

Turning 4

In the middle of all this craziness... Kaleb turned four!  Yikes, how does that happen so fast, ah.  Three days after we got home, it was his birthday.  Thanks to Auntie & Grandma... I didn't need to do a thing & Kaleb had a wonderful, fun day mostly centered on him.  Which is nice when your parents just brought home a spunky 1 1/2 year old.  After extensive discussions, I guess he requested a Thomas the Train party to his party planners so of course, they fully complied :)  Great job Auntie & Grandma!!


 Uncle RyRy even delivered a 'motorcycle'....
 Oh, boy. 
 Serious popcorn love for this kid!
Don't be fooled this is an expression of 'if only I could eat this right now' because he asks nearly every day if we can have popcorn for supper.  
 Then... and ultimate soccer game with everyone involved :) 

 Followed by cupcakes :) 
 And, our sweet Mrs. Tiller even stopped by for a few minutes :)  
She was actually dropping off a gift but, Kaleb thought it was pretty cool that she came to his party.  He even invited her in & offered her a cupcake therefore proving how highly she ranks in Mr. Kaleb's little world!! 


Good times indeed!!  Can't believe our little man is four.  My goodness, time is flying!!

Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Here We Go....


Our bags are packed, Kaleb is off to Gamma & Grandpa's house, bills are paid and we are ready... or, we think we are :)  There is so much I could write tonight or should be writing tonight and want to write.  So many thank you's to say (Mom, Dad, Mom, Dad, Ashley, Hills View, Laura, our prayer warrior friends & family) for the piles and miles of blessings which have been showered upon our family in order to get us to tomorrow morning.  Thank you.  We Love YOU.  Thank You. Thank You. Thank You.  All I really need to say tonight, is....

God is Good.  All the Time!  His timing, ways and provisions are perfect.  The story of Him bringing us to Elsie has so many chapters some already told and some yet to be told showcasing His master plan.  We praise Him and thank Him for all that He has done in getting us to tomorrow morning.  Tomorrow morning is just the start really though...you see, we're not quite done begging from all of you yet.  Sorry, you're not done with us yet.  What we covet and ask for in the coming 16ish days is your prayers.  

Prayers for smoothly connecting flights, for excellent health, for Elsie, for bonding, for logistics to work smoothly, for wisdom, for grace and mercy and love and strength when they days and hours of this next adventure are getting long.  Please, please pray for Kaleb.  He's a tough one but, still- sixteen days without Mama and Daddy are a long time.  Pray for Ashley as she has graciously volunteered to jump into parenthood of a 3.9 yr. old for the next two weeks.  Pray for good weather, safe flights.   Pray for Elsie's heart to be open to us.  Help her understand and feel our love although so many changes are happening so quickly.  Pray for Wes & I.  

While you're praying, here is what we'll be doing... 
This weekend, we'll do some sightseeing and touring of historical/cultural locations in the area.  
This will also help us get our time zones adjusted before they hand us a 19 month old :)  
Sunday Evening:  When you're going to bed, we'll be meeting and holding Elsie for the first time.  We'll then stay in her province all next week as we complete paperwork.  The second weekend we're gone, we'll travel to the very southern region of her homeland to complete the immigration process of bringing her home.  On March 16th, we should have the entire process complete however, we don't leave the country for a few days in case there is a delay somewhere during the prior 2 weeks.  
Then... 
We're HAVING A PARTY!!!  
11:30/45ish am at the Rapid City Airport
at the bottom of the escalator :)  
(plane officially lands at 11:35 however it will take a few minutes to get off the plane, etc. it will be closer to 11:45 at least)

Trust me, it'll be a lunch hour you won't forget!  
Then, we will load up together for the first time as a family of four.  Wow.  I can't wait! 
After that, then we'll be laying low for awhile as we adjust to life together.  Unless, of course you're stopping by to bring me gallons of coffee or diet coke ;)  We'll start venturing out based on how Elsie's settling in.  But, if you don't see us for awhile well- adjusting can be tough.  Send chocolate people!  (jk...well, kind of).

We love you all dearly and can not thank you enough for all the love, blessings, & generosity you've blessed us with.  God has done crazy, awesome, amazing things this past year.
Go God! 
We're coming for you Elsie!!