Sunday, August 17, 2014

Bring it ON!

I love summers!!  What's not to love about slow starting mornings, coffee delivered by my rock star husband, spending all day long hanging out with Kaleb and the freedom in  my days to get needed projects done.  I love teaching and typically think my job is a pretty good gig as well.  But, let's be honest- who doesn't love summer.  Most years- I'm a little reluctant to jump back into the up at 5:30, out of the house by 6:35 and on the road heading to daycare while eating breakfast then hauling three bags worth of stuff and a load of laundry to my 3rd floor classroom.  And, that's just getting to my classroom.  Once I open that door- the day of craziness really gets started.
These past few weeks have been different... I just want school to start.  I want it to be fall and to be cold and to wear coats and drive to work on the dark and come home in the dark.  I even wore a sweatshirt to church last Sunday.  I want hoodies and soup.  Why?  Because, if the experts are right- it will be a cool day deep into fall or a crisp winter day when we finally get that phone call about our little girl.  It might be spring, but I'm praying for winter.  And, I can't wait.  Totally can't wait. Ah, the anticipation is starting to grow and build.  Compared to pregnancy, there is so much mystery in the 'expectant' phase of adoption.  How old and what size and which day will she be revealed.  She's already in our hearts and on our minds.  Kaleb's mind too.  He will be an incredible, incredible big brother.  This past week, we some of Kaleb's friends stay for the day.  And, he was completely and totally in love with little Baby "R".  Brought her toys, rolled the ball to her, entertained her and every once in awhile would bend over and kiss her little chubby legs.  At one point, he said "I love Baby R...." then we had a precious little chat about how his little sister is living in China.  But, she will come home to live with us someday.  Today, on the way home from church.  He brought up China again.  Earlier this week, we were in Target and he spotted a globe.  He immediately ran over to it and found Africa then said "my little sister is in China".  The kid is smarter than even I realize sometimes.  We haven't met her but, she is already part of him and we haven't pushed the topic at all.
So, tomorrow is the start of school.  And, I say- Bring IT!!! Because each day we go farther into our wait, we're one day closer to meeting her.  We can't wait!  Until then... here are some last glimpses of summer.  It has been a sweet and precious season indeed :)










Sunday, July 27, 2014

One


Here we go again....the official monthly update while we're waiting to be matched with our daughter.  This is no count-down instead, its more like passing mile markers on a race towards home- only we don't know when/where the finish line is.  God knows exactly when we'll be introduced to our little girl so, this time- I'm really seeing our waiting time in a new light.  Instead of dreading watching the monthly numbers creep up, I know this time around that the bigger the monthly number- the closer we are to our daughter.  I might need reminded of that come winter but that's my focus.  

The real question for most people seems to be....how long will it be?  And, my answer is- God knows and I haven't a clue.  However, our agency has given some insight eluding that we will possibly be matched late fall into winter.  It would be a huge blessing if we were matched sometime in 2014 simply because of my school schedule however, we know and totally trust God's perfect timing!  We have heard a lot of encouraging news from our agency and their program updates.  Last month over a dozen kids were matched with families which is great!  They have recently added a new orphanage partnership allowing them to find homes for more kids.  

What we do know (or think we know anyways) is that 'it' will be a girl.  She will probably be 1-ish when we meet her and somewhere between 1 1/2 ish and 2 years old when she's finally home.  Right now, our focus is on praying for kids to be matched with families as soon as possible.  And, praying for our daughter- who is most likely already born.  For her health and the caretakers watching over her until she comes home.  We can't wait for the day God reveals our daughter!!  For now, we're thankful that '1' is done.   In the meantime... we're going to pack in the last bits of summer .
P.S. I've got the coolest yard guys around ;)  


Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Fun with Grandma & Grandpa!!

Last week, we had the super exciting honor of having Grandma & Grandpa R. come for a visit!!!  It was a great time of relaxation and fun.  Kaleb quickly showed Grandma the secret stash of goodies in the garage freezer ;)  
 Analyzing tongue colors... Kaleb was convinced he was turning orange, hehe!
 Walks to go see acorns of course...
 Our favorite bench where we stack rocks and look for acorns...
 The highlight of the weekend for Kaleb- most likely the popcorn and movie night with Grandma and Grandpa!  There is nothing the kid loves more than piling on the couch with a couple gallons of good ole' fashioned popcorn to watch Toy Story.  He was thrilled Grandma & Grandpa could be there to enjoy it :) 
 He even painted a few masterpieces of art- one of which headed back to Laramie for the infamous 'art room' at Grandma & Grandpa's house.  We had a great time and can't wait for them to come back! 

Monday, July 7, 2014

Our Favorite

There are few places that fit like an old glove.  You can go there for over three decades and love it more each time.  It's the perfect vacation- not a lot of work, quiet relaxation with everything needed for a fun family weekend.  Starting last Wednesday, we landed in our favorite state park campground where $18 a night campsite can buy you pretty much the perfect vacation.  Fishing out the tent flap, a sandy beach, nightly smores, a playground around the corner and most importantly- quiet, simple fun.  As a family, we've been going there for about thirty years to my knowledge.  Growing up, the old phrase 'make hay when the sun shines' pretty much sums up summertime as a kid.  But, at the end of summer when the wheat was in and most/enough of the hay was cut we'd load up for a couple nights of camping.  It really hasn't changed a bit... 
 Ryon still catching fish before breakfast...
 Lots of swimming, water fights and hosing down Auntie when she was trying to sun bathe :) 
Uncle RyRy rented a paddle boat- Kaleb loved it!! 
Due to Mom & Dad's stellar 'booking agent' ;)  They were able to have a camping cabin for the weekend- I figure if you've had hip replacement surgery in the past 6 months, that qualifies you for a promotion to 'cabin' status if possible.  Best $40 a person can spend! 
 This year, we landed there on the 4th of July.  
You won't find a bigger or more candy laden parade- anywhere!!  




Sometimes, after you've swam, played, ran around, stayed up late, skipped naps, chased Auntie, fished, and soooo much more- you're so tired you have to curl up for a little rest right in the middle of a crazy candy showering parade.  Because, your exhausted 3 year-old body- Just. Can't. Keep. Going.  
 But, with a little sugar from the candy bag and Uncle RyRy asking if you want to take a nap- you keeeeep going.  The fun wasn't over yet though... the annual 4th of July rodeo that evening following by a mega 'boom-fire' show.  It was great!! 


 Showing off our dance moves in the grand stands :) 
 Cheering for the broncs with Grandpa!
 Lots of fun hanging out with Gamma this weekend- oh, boy did we have fun!
 
Needless to say- we had a great time.  Obviously, Kaleb's 5 hour nap on Saturday was much needed and well earned. So glad we were able to hang out as a whole family this weekend.  Its Monday morning and the camping exhaustion hangover is still lingering.  Good times indeed :) 

Thursday, June 19, 2014

LID!

Great news this morning... we were notified of our "LID"!  Our LID is the date in which our file of documents was officially logged into the official database in China.  So.... somewhere across the ocean, in a sea of papers is our folder of paperwork :)  It will now be translated and review while we wait to be matched with our daughter.  Can't wait! 

Friday, June 13, 2014

Dear Little Sister...

Tonight, I was tucking your big brother into bed.  And, maybe possibly he was stalling a bit before admitting he was exhausted.  He reminded me that God made Kaleb's skin chocolate and God made Mama's skin peachy.  Also, that our house is 'pretty and nice'.  Then he said:  "Our family is Mama, Daddy, Kabub.............(long thoughtful pause) and Little Sister.  Insert big cheesy squishy faced grin :)  
He already loves you Little Sister- oh, my you have no idea what an amazing big brother you having waiting for you.  And, we've yet to even meet you!  So tonight, he went down the whole list of important things that every 3 year old big brother must teach his little sister...
- how to bounce balls
- checking flowers
- growing flowers
- watering flowers
*Kabub reminded me that all girls like flowers- please take note ;) 
- swinging...swinging 'big'
- and, very very most importantly- his sandbox!  
Then, he made sure to remind me that Little Sister is going to come live at our house- forever. 

Oh, my does he ever 'get it'!  Every piece of change he finds- goes straight to the pig.   He mentions 'Little Sister' daily if not a handful of times.  This is such a fun age when we can have these wise conversations and moments of discovering the world is even bigger than we thought the day before.  I am so grateful we have this summer together- totally immersed in his little brain as it is starting to truly unravel how God builds our family.  Kaleb has always loved being home the most and still that way.  I love you dearly my sweet Kabub :)




Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Farmyard Fun

Summer is for having fun... so, yesterday we got in on a great group special at Old McDonald's Farm- a local petting zoo kid place.  It was fun because the kids can go into each of the little pens to play directly with the animals- cute and fun all the way around!  Here's a look at our day- 














Fun time- especially because we got to hang out with some awesome friends too!